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Entrepreneurs in Cars (17 days ago)
Conclusion: There is no safe way I am aware of to do this without some risk, either to the father getting ground through the divorce machine, or to the children. Thoughts on this video or any personal experiences dealing with this? Post a comment below. Channel Sponsor: You're showering anyways, so why not buy handmade soap from a sponsor that supports the creation of my content. Use code "COOPER" at checkout and Get 10% off Tactical Soap mentioned at the end of the video here: http://bit.ly/2jQEZbz If you want to join us at the 21 convention this fall, you can grab a ticket here: http://team.21university.com/78641/6171 Make a reach.me request: https://www.reach.me/RichardCooper Get 1 on 1 coaching with me: https://clarity.fm/richardcooper Join us on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/EntrepreneursinCars
Thefenix 007es (17 hours ago)
He can just adopt a kid. You don't need a women for it.
Drk RE (4 days ago)
All you can do is mitigate the potential loss, don't get married, don't live in a state with common law marriage, don't link your finances to her in any way, live in a rented property (because she'll get you kicked out of it when you break up if you have kids). Yes, there is going to be some financial pain, it's inevitable, not only will there be child support, you will also have to help her out if she is destitute for the sake of the kids. The damage, however, should be limited, of course if she is completely financially incompetent then you have to go for main custody.
John Smith (15 days ago)
Tony Montana really? I heard Ontario was one of the worst places to get divorced. From my understanding Rich got divorced there
Bodhi Swan (15 days ago)
For the most part - we get screwed by CSA child support agency and the Family Court system here in Australia too if you’re a male. One can get 50/50 custody, where it’s agreed upon (that is, no maintenance payment by either party), but it’s the exception not the rule. My advice to this situation is mentor a niece / nephew / godson or daughter and stay away from the system that can potentially kill the human spirit. There’s an old saying; you have to pay the piper.. Stop, look, listen and think before doing anything stupid!! Rant over 😂🏄🏽‍♂️💦🇦🇺
zekkez (15 days ago)
I've watched a lot of your content as well as lots of others' of similar genre and yours is clearly the best. Quite simply because although you've been through the divorce and legal system for access to your children, you give such measured responses to these questions raised. You're more than entitled to be bitter and twisted but you keep it logical and don't force any one opinion on people, you leave food for thought. Others of similar content are definitely bitter and have been scorned or burned by women somewhere along the line and their attitudes are questionable. Bravo Sir.
Cássio Correa (16 hours ago)
I have share parenting that my ex wants to destroy using my attempting of suicide (because of the divorce) to justify it. You guys must fight for shared custody, it's much better.
Thefenix 007es (17 hours ago)
He can adopt a kid . so he won't have to deal with a women. I am gonna do it later on. There is no point to live with a women. ( sex? I can rent a body) ( have kids? I can adopt) ( emotional affection ? They don't care so don't waste your time.)
a88888888a (2 days ago)
most of these guys can't find the diamond in the rough... Hahaha... They blame the system or the woman for making a bad decision. No one told you to inseminate them if they don't meet at the check lists.... Hahaha.... Problem is there's a lot of vaginas but not many winners, so finding the winner is like finding the pin in the haystack. Thus you want to be alpha to the core so you have more options to choose from in the quest of finding the one that checks off all the boxes.
Bizguy 4Life (5 days ago)
Great topic I wish I would have known this stuff 12 years ago period. It's okay now I get to pass it on to my 17 year old son
drewman 87 (5 days ago)
I thought being a blue pilled beta happens with a [email protected]
eclipseNF (8 days ago)
@Entrepreneurs in cars MGTOW Doesn't mean checking out of the sexual market. It just means don't get married or co-habitate. It's the same thing as the red pill.
Cavemantero (8 days ago)
fuck this corporation. bout to go off on these oppressors posing as lawmakers and countrymen.
David Shultz (9 days ago)
It's called adoption, folks. You don't need a purebred child, so to speak. That way you can bring a woman into your life and she can't use your child to crush you.
double dollarman (9 days ago)
Hey Rich. Things won’t ever change because the criminal justice system makes way too much money off of men being incarcerated. The court system would rather push rational men towards irrational behavior and have us jailed instead of helping. A woman can marry you. Spit out a couple kids. Get you to buy a house. Cheat on you and then divorce you and take everything you’ve worked for. For any reason. The judge will roll his eyes and give her everything no matter what you say. It’s the bleeding truth and we need to let these young guys know the truth. Marriage ain’t worth your life.
1hard2findbro (10 days ago)
How to meet women in Canada 😊 🏃 🍁 👩
John smith (10 days ago)
Marriage is a bogus fairy tale created by someone with a sick sense of humor.
Russell Nash (10 days ago)
With my luck, I could have 10 kids and every one of them would be female. I'd have to spend 35 million dollars raising 10 little future whores.
luis luis (11 days ago)
Get a surrogate like Cristiano Ronaldo, he has 3 kids via this method and his mother and sister helped him raise his first son.
Chris Kelly84 (11 days ago)
34 single...no kids. Just had a vasectomy 2 weeks ago. Overall cost was about $750. Way cheaper than paying child support or raising a kid.
anonymous anonymous (11 days ago)
In the UK vasectomys are free most of the time .
Chris Kelly84 (11 days ago)
And yes I paid out of pocket.
dastodavid (11 days ago)
Your beard is epic! Im not homosexual, but if i ever seen you in real live, id probably ask to touch it lol.
vmogli (12 days ago)
Lol pathetic that people are paying this guy 75-100 dollars for 5 minutes worth of advice. Even more pathetic that this guy is reeling in vulnerable people and essentially stealing money from these poor people. Look at all the endorsement this guy has in his descpition. It's just a money grab people
ageofbogyo (12 days ago)
Buy an Island , make your own country and laws, import women who obeys to those laws.
anonymous anonymous (11 days ago)
If they don't obey chuck them out .
Neo Matrix (12 days ago)
The only way to have kids risk free is playing The Sims
HOTBALLZ (12 days ago)
Long version: You can’t. Short version: You can’t.
Richardson Freight (13 days ago)
I was thinking about this dilema for past 4y. One of the solutions is surogacy. 1st) It's legal in India and will run between 10-20k USD. Then you can move anywhere in the world. (watch the episode of VICE on this subject) 2nd) You will need help raising the kid and a women "soft rolmodel" till the age of 13-14 In every culture this is the time when child goes from mother to father. In my opinion hiring well educated young full time sitter is the best way. It will run you between 4-6k USD a month in US outside of CA and NY. or 25% less in europe outside of London. It's not that expensive. Lifetime sitters were very popular in Europe not that long ago. I know several friends raised this way. Bond between sitter, child and (you) will create artificial family and the effect will be good. I expect a lots of criticism. Lots of beta snowflakes out there. You ask for solution this is one
Joe Smith (14 days ago)
53% of marriages end in divorce, would you jumpd out of an airplane if your parachute had 47% chance of opening?
stinkopants (14 days ago)
Well.... If you're American, jump the border and impregnate a bunch of Canadian chicks then go back to America! Seed spread success!
Eugene Mokwele (14 days ago)
Really guys....lol having a kid risk free ? ....if that is your thought process then dont even have one because a kid is not just an object its a human being.
Plant-Based MD (14 days ago)
Go to San Diego and get a girl in TJ Pregno.. You can go every other day to visit if you like and no consequences
76ers (14 days ago)
Adopt a kid. Get a girlfriend but don't marry her. Both of you serve as Father/Mother figure.
Plant-Based MD (14 days ago)
Get a smart good looking girl pregno and don't get married.. You will still be paying child support but won't be married.. Simple
Plant-Based MD (14 days ago)
Bro if you have a kid don't call it get screwed by the system.. You will have to fork money to take care of the kid for at least 20 yrs
bunberrier (14 days ago)
Have children with a terminally ill woman? Idk, thats why I viewed this video. What sorcery is this, I thought.
Anne B (14 days ago)
If you don’t care if it’s your child biologically, of course there is adoption. But what I think mgtow guys overlook is foster care. First, you can state you would only want a male. Second, if you don’t want diapers/infants, you can say school aged, etc. Third, the government actually pays you money to help offset the costs of raising these kids. Fourth, you are still mgtow. Sadly very few of these kids are reunited with their biological families. Sometimes after a couple years of knowing the child you can even adopt. It’s certainly not something to do in a whim, but there’s no guarantees with any child, including your own. It would be something to consider. So many boys are in need of positive male role models. You could have a huge impact on a boys life. If foster care is too much of a commitment, there’s big brother programs.
Stacey Dash (9 days ago)
Anne Budney Should I be surprised that not One of these men responded in kind?! Hmmmm. They want to have biological children! I'm convinced! They want to have a family. This is just a place for them to vent whenever they feel the need. Interesting.
Buttcheeks Mcgee (14 days ago)
There are so many children who need good homes...adopt a kid.
Joe Paquet (15 days ago)
Hi, I just found your channel, I just wanted to say hello and thank you for vlogging. Lot's of people comment on many channels about statistics. I'm writing to tell you I'm one of those individuals that makes up some statistics. 51 year old male, after a thirty two year relationship I started to get healthy, asked my wife to return to full time employment, six months later she claimed abuse. I was evicted from my home and have not seen my daughter in 9 months. My case is before the NH Supreme Court, see the July docket. Silver Bullet victim and survivor. I'm considering starting a vlog to help others understand the journey. Thank you
Post Mod Gent (15 days ago)
I avoided the major bullets by establishing joint (not shared) custody at birth and a private support/access agreement, not marrying her, owning my own home prior and then jointly owing another property where she and children lived and she has educations/skills to earn her own money (or better but rare is wealthier than yourself). You will find that many women are open to this arrangement once you're upfront about it. There are a lot of women who want children and to own their home but do not possess the resources or have the options to do it on their own. My arrangement does not come without minor hassles and headaches but my legal rights as a parent are in place (health, education, residence, travel). My children's mother has been agreeable for the most part over the years mainly because upsetting the arrangement would be acting against her own interest.
Joe Jones (15 days ago)
As someone who was a full time single father for 8 years, I can tell you Rich, it’s a whole different ball game on this side of it. No one gives 2 shit’s about male father’s.
Kyrious (15 days ago)
I honestly don’t know if I want kids anymore. It’s a big commitment, and it’s very very high risk. With today’s system and women I just don’t think it’s stable enough for me or the kid.
MGTOW Samurai (15 days ago)
you are coming at the breeding problem from the wrong premise. You have to come at it from the angle that you’re going to take the child and leave before she can do it to you. Children don’t need a mother they develop normally without a mother, so you have to see the female as the incubator only, stop thinking of her as a mother. Stop thinking like a nice blue pilled simp and that means mentally overcoming your male weakness of compassion. You use her for breeding then you take the child and disappear. You have about a four year window before she does not need you and will start thinking about fucking you over and taking the child. First start to set up your escape plan, then tell her everything she wants to hear, breed quickly one or 2 children, within 2 years, remember you have about 4 years before it’s too late to do the runner with the child. Once you’re really to do the runner, disappear with the child and start your life. Remember it’s not illegal for a parent to take a child and just leave. If you’re worried about the police then do it with a lawyer and disappear but use the lawyer to notify the police and say it’s for the child’s safety, simply lie and apply for custody saying the child was in danger and make up some really good bull shit. You have to be a ruthless cunt just like a women will do to you. You would have no hesitation shitting on another man if he was going to hurt your child so this is no difference, if you stay with her you know that the odds are against you and the mother will most likely abuse the child and deny you access, so its only you doing it first. Women are not your friend, not your lover, they are a tool you use and then upgrade from. stop thinking tradition. Things will not get better, fairer, or go back to the good old days, that's an MRA fantasy. evolve to the new type of male and incorporate female behavior into your redpilled mind
Tom B (15 days ago)
Don't marry, don't move in. Make them earn your devotion everyday. Once they have no reason to please you, they wont
Thomas Russell (15 days ago)
Switzerland has had automatic 50/50 parenting since 2011.
RSVDCN (15 days ago)
If you're tall, healthy, smart and good looking, there's always sperm donation
zzospreyzz55 (15 days ago)
The US, at least PA is starting to lean towards 50/50 split. Still very femme slanted though with child support and decisions, etc. I don't recommend it unless you can take the woman out of the picture beforehand. It's not a healthy situation for the kid though
zzospreyzz55 (15 days ago)
From personal experience, there is no way to do it. The child, not the woman, has the right to the child support meaning that it doesn't matter if you have parental rights or not, you will always owe child support no matter what she does. She will eventually find someone else to move in with and you'll be funding their lifestyle through the child support. Even if you have split custody, the courts will generally rule that the man owes the women child support. Essentially, you'll be paying for some other guy to raise your child. Of all the guys I know that have full custody of their children, you can forget significant child support. One friend has full custody of three kids and she doesn't even pay enough to cover their school lunches. He makes under $60k/yr. Edit: also forgot that even with a split, the mother will likely be able to qualify for more public assistance than you but the courts will make you pay for half of the bill that she's getting for free. Things like daycare, schooling, soccer practices, camp, doctors bills, etc. plus, chances are that she will be able to claim custody of the kids for tax purposes. Oh, and don't forget that child support works out to be 28% of your gross monthly income but you have to pay it with after tax dollars. She doesn't pay taxes on child support. Safest way to have kids without getting married? Make sure you get full custody and she gives up her rights. It's not going to happen though
anonymous anonymous (11 days ago)
Luckily we don't have those child support laws in the UK lol .
Ilham H (15 days ago)
Think outside of the country. Hook up with an illegal chick or import her on a tourist visa. Knock her up and let her stay illegal while she gives birth to your child. The key is, never let her get legalized. She will hide behind you like a brick wall and do whatever you say. Trust me, I'd been illegal, nothing drills deeper into your mind than the thought that you are a second class citizen. She'll always feel your superiority and will be under your rule. My pal did it and he is happy.
Sir TrixxxAlot (15 days ago)
There's no definitive stats on single fathers like there's definitive stats on single mothers. All we can go by is the impact of the father's absence or presence in the childs life. Based on those stats, I'm going the surrogate single father route. I'll accept that risk over marrying or pair bonding. By the way folks, Mexico would be the country to look for cheap surrogates. Don't let these super red pill dudes have you paying child support for 18 years.
Quantumline (15 days ago)
About two years ago one of my really good friend (women) came to me with a proposition. She said "I'm 44 now and still could not find a partner. I'm not sure I even can have kids anymore but I would love to have at least one. You are my type. Would you make me pregnant? You don't have to pay child support or anything. I'm willing to sign a paper about that". It broke my heart. I told her that the child needs a father. and I don't think it's a good idea. I did not even want go into how risky to have a child over 40. And of course she could change her mind about the child support anytime.
JBH8063 (4 days ago)
smart move
Rob Paulson (15 days ago)
Buy a dog..
Mickey Turner (15 days ago)
Kentucky is the first and only state with default shared parenting laws
Jacques Lewis (15 days ago)
Divorced fathers commit suicide because they realize that getting married is the worst idea imaginable. Women fuck up men's lives.
Lee Martin (15 days ago)
This guys videos just keeps getting worse and worse... i used to listen to you back in the days when your videos had good content... now its all segue and ads... im no expert but your style and shift will lose you subs. Your channel will die if you dont churn out good content and lessen your segue(s)...
Constantia de Gier (16 days ago)
I can not understand why people still want children? Society will certainly not die out. Ask yourself why you want children? Do they have to fill an emotional void? I already knew at age 7 that I did not want children and I am so grateful that I listened to myself. I have all the time for myself and do not miss children. There is nothing as strong as a hormone, but put yourself over it. It will be your best choice ever to choose for yourself.
Constantia de Gier (15 days ago)
My mind tells me that you find everything stupid besides yourself. Grow up. Get mental help.
Space_Race (15 days ago)
@Constantia de Gier - Stupid reply! "Choice" *Wake up.*
Constantia de Gier (15 days ago)
That is Fatima her choice. Not mine.
Space_Race (15 days ago)
Western woman does not want children.... Meanwhile, Fatima down the road is having 5+ on welfare - thanks to western woman's tax bill.
Sun Rise (16 days ago)
Have a child with a woman that is terminally ill & has 9 months to live.
Sun Rise (16 days ago)
The Howard government made many legal reforms involving shared custody in Australia, then the Labour party was elected & reversed all the reforms. Surrogacy is the only safe reality.
Royston E. Smythe (16 days ago)
If we care about the civillisation our ancestors created we have to solve this problem. If Western men are afraid to breed while our governments keep importing the rest of the world we will lose the culture and civillisation. More men in the manosphere need to pool our resources and find out how to keep the nations going while minimising the risk of divorce rape and women screwing up the lives of the children and turning them against us.
Jason Jay (16 days ago)
Do women EVER commit suicide after a divorce? Talk about a unicorn there, geesh. Men take all the burden in life. The current female primary order and gyno-centric laws would have never happened if women weren't allowed to vote. 80% emotional creatures being allowed to vote is like giving a 3rd grader keys to an M5 convertible while the parents are on vacation.
Anne B (14 days ago)
Jason Jay When I was in school I recall learning women actually “attempt” suicide more, but are more likely to take pills, that do not actually kill them. Men are more “successful” (hate using that word in relation to suicide), because they tend to use more violent methods. There is not enough discussion, awareness of the sky rocketing suicide rate in men, particularly divorced men and/or veterans. It’s tragic. We all wear ribbons for breast cancer awareness. How about some ribbons and exposure for suicide prevention.
FiveWest (Voyaller) (16 days ago)
Let's say you own a house. You have a job. Your money etc. What are the success possibilities of having an LTR with kids without marriage in between? Edit: Your all live in the same house.
Tora Chan (15 days ago)
Depends on where you live, if common law exists or not. Also depends on your woman not making any accusations on you to take the kids away and force you to pay child support. Also I’m not 100% sure, but I think women can get you for your money when they leave work to birth your child. They can claim you forced them to limit their career prospects, and they are entitled to financial compensation.
Snake Plisskin (16 days ago)
Simple. You can't. So....don't.
Dark. Duke (16 days ago)
My take: just bite the bullet and live with woman (there are decent one out there), having full family is good for kid AND guy (oh and for woman, I suppose), just try not letting her run (and ruin) Your life, also contacting lawyer before marriage and ANY huge financial decision (starting Your own business, buying house etc) may be good idea. Monsters are made, not born, she may try to rip You another hole IF it come to divorce. TL:DR be The Man, don't get f* in the a*. That's a woman's job.
Thierno Thierno (16 days ago)
Let me give the solution guys : Be hypergamic just like they are. Don’t low date . UP FUCKING DATE! She has to make more money than u. That’s how u will get a chance to save your a** from this scam system.
GreGuaR (16 days ago)
Hi Richard, I have watched a lot of your videos and I like them a lot. Two topics to talk about: 1) In many of your videos you state that women are hypergamous "by nature." You imply that it is in the "biology" of the female to seek the highest status male. What is your opinion on social programming, you know, what women are taught by their parents and society? For example, mother to her daughter: "You should date a lawyer or a doctor, don't settle for anything less!" and so on... 2) (Immature) Women select partners based solely on their social status/wealth. This is the basis of their hypergamous nature; based on that criterion, they will search to find men who maximize its value. However, we also know that (immature) men select women based only on how hot they look. So women tend to select the highest social status males and men tend to select the most beautiful females. Couldn't we classify that behavior of men as hypergamous as well?
GreGuaR (15 days ago)
Yup, that's exactly my point. We men will try to get the most beautiful woman and marry her, at least that's what most guys do. I never said that male and female hypergamy are "identical." Suppose that social status and wealth is x and that beauty/attractiveness is y. Women want to maximize x and men want to maximize y when they want to have a partner. The strife to maximize only one variable is what makes hypergamy, hypergamy. And yes, hypergamy serves better women than men. Beauty declines with age, however, wealth and social status can increase.
Tora Chan (15 days ago)
Female hypergamy is seeking the highest status man who can provide the most resources. But for men, we seek the most beautiful woman we can get? I’m not sure if that would be considered hypergamy... Because unlike women, we wouldn’t branch swing as easily as they do. And plus we don’t receive anything “tangible” in our version of hypergamy. When a woman exercises her hypergamy, she improves her tax bracket. When a man exercises his “hypergamy”, his wife just gets younger and looks better. It doesn’t really “help” him I guess.
Daryl Miller (16 days ago)
You missed one possible situation. Being up front while dating, that you are looking for partner who wants to have kids, but tell them you are not willing to marry. But want to coparent. Then, you want to have a coparenting written agreement before getting pregnant. You may find some women are open to this. Generally they may fall into the over 35 category. This is a situation i am in. And it is working great. Plus best part of life for me has been seeing and being a part of raising my child. Worth it.
Fuzzy Camel (16 days ago)
Living in Canada is like a god damn slavery nightmare. You'd have to be nuts to have kids in this screwy liberal country. If anything goes wrong in that marriage, it's total financial wipeout for you. They literally put 100% of the blame and risk on the men. If some guy comes home from work early and catches his wife blowing the plumber, guess what, he loses his house, kids, and gets slapped with support payments. What happens to her? She gets a nice payday and a monthly allowance, and is now free to bang as many men as she wants. Most white Canadian born women are not loyal either, the majority are feminists and they cheat, a lot. I wouldn't trust most of them. Their diet sucks and they don't take care of themselves, and the side effect of that is their brains are malnourished and inflamed, so they make crap decisions. You can't honestly expect someone brought up on empty calories like Kraft Dinner and Wonder Bread to have healthy brain function and make good choices.
Edwin (16 days ago)
Wife and dog missing. Reward for dog.
paulfitz82 (16 days ago)
This is an unsolvable problem. We will go extinct as a society. Societies that are patriarchal a will survive. This is one thing Islam has right because of the fundamental pre-programming of hypergamy. They are all defective by design.
sam cruz (16 days ago)
You can adopt
Esharido (16 days ago)
Can't blame a man for wanting to pass on his genes it's in his primal instincts
anonymous anonymous (11 days ago)
I know right but by having kids comes with a door of opened problems and burden .
The Modern Man (16 days ago)
Most men want sex and don’t want marriage or children. For this reason, girlfriends go out of their way to create the “accidentally on purpose” pregnancy with the boyfriend. They are betting a pregnancy will cause you to get married, and they still get money if you don’t. If you want children, just allow your girlfriend to “trick you”, have the baby, and pay the child support. A girlfriend has already selected you as worthy of children, which is why you are dating. Child support is manageable as long as you didn’t get married because you don’t have to split assets or pay alimoney. You also get the benefit of sharing the parenting, and is much less expensive than surrogacy. Typical child support is between $400-$500 a month if you make 45-50K salary, but it is income based. Most women respect the visitation rights in exchange for the money, and parental alienation is illegal. Having children out of wedlock has become common. This method has worked for me anyway.
dennqus1 (16 days ago)
I'm 57 years old. At approximately 32 years of age I felt an incredible urge to reproduce. Never found anyone who was worthy of my seed. Richard is right. If you get someone pregnant no matter where you will eventually take it in the ass. There's far too many people on this planet anyways and I really hate to see what the next 50 years will bring.
Mitch (16 days ago)
The only low risk option is to move to a country with marriage/divorce laws that favor men and encourage tight knit family bonds. The trade off is that you'll have a harder life in general due to a less developed economy. But keep in mind that those laws can always change 5 to 10 years from now due to western influence on foreign cultures.
Andrew Chapman (16 days ago)
Move to the Pitcairn Islands. You MIGHT have luck there.
homebrandrules (16 days ago)
funny man
Michael Stoddard (16 days ago)
Please share a "Shared Parenting" clause for prenuptial agreement
Michael Stoddard (16 days ago)
Shared Parenting should be in every prenuptial contact
hoffman411 (16 days ago)
Just think if you are a single guy now that is alone and has no kids and wants a woman and family but if feels so hard to find and get and you feel like you are missing something it sucks right. But it feels way worse when you have nothing, govt forces you to hand over money and you cant see ya kids. Biggest regret was making babies fucked my life hard. So much money lost and heart break. Emotional cancer for men
Andres Felipe (16 days ago)
If you have enough money you can always adopt.
Deso97 (16 days ago)
Wait. This a catch 32 here. You can't get married, nor live with a woman together. At the same time 2 parents are required, living together, to raise functional humans in society. So either humanity will become distorted as fuck (on an individual level), or the population will decrease. I feel like there's a bigger agenda in play here, lol.
clintsco (16 days ago)
Move overseas and find a foreign wife where her country's marriage laws are fair to men, She can't divorce rape you! Live and raise your family in her country can't do that? then Stay Single and don't bring her to the West!
The Daughter Who Sews (16 days ago)
Masculine and feminine energy....excellent words
aussiebear22 (16 days ago)
Buy a dog. Dogs are loyal.
ThePlummer Speaks: (16 days ago)
How about setting up a living trust, where you personally own nothing but the trust, and the trust owns nothing but a C corp. All holdings are then held in the C corp. That would put you two arms lengths away from anyone grabbing your assets. Oh, and pay yourself a very modest income for day to day expenses. Now, I've thought about this same issue, and have came to one possible conclusion. You hire a female, live in employee. Have a written contract that states exactly what her duties are, and how many hours minimum she will 'work' around the house, for a salary. Her residence in your home is part of the benefits package, and if for any reason, she decides to leave, she's free to do so, but if you 'fire' her, you state in your contract that you will provide her with a rental property amount to get her into the rental home, of modest means. That's her severence package. Implement a three strikes and your out rule.. If she commits an action that deserves a strike, issue it to her, explain what she did wrong, mark it on a calendar, with red ink, and keep the calendar in a place where she can visually see it every day. If she goes 6 months without receiving another strike, the first strike falls off. If she commits another violation within the 6 months, she gets strike two. And naturally strike three and she's out. Now, once you've established this 'working' relationship for a matter of no less than two years, and you are somewhat compatible, you may decide to open up the conversation about having children with her. She will probably be the one wanting that before then anyway. Tell her that the only way you'd consider it, is if she would sign a surrogacy agreement, giving you sole custody of the child, that if she left or was fired, she would have no claim to the child(ren), and would be subject to the above employment contractual rules. In return, she would be allowed to continue to be the child's 'nanny', for so long as mutual employment conditions were met. I posited this idea before two American Lawyers. One whom spent a large portion of his career as a circuit court Judge, and the other whom has been a lawyer for 50 years, doing divorces and adoptions. The judge lawyer (who specializes in Divorce), shook his head and said that I'm always looking for a way to protect myself, he then said that I may have found such a way, then left my presence (I upset him, as I was threatening to break his rice bowl). The other lawyer felt like a judge would have the opinion that I was attempting to 'game the system', and the contract would be null and void, simply because it removes HIS authority to rule on the matter, should she ever decide to petition for custody. Prenups have exactly the same problem. There are certain things that a couple cannot decide themselves on prior to marriage, such as child support, and custody times. It is illegal to do such. So, bottom line, there is no way to protect yourself from being financially raped and your children legally kidnapped from you, by the gynocentric state, should a woman decide to call them to arms on her behalf. MGTOW is the only way to ever right this ship, if it can even happen. MGTOW is a peaceful, passive, resistance to the gynocentric zeitgeist in the west. And all this, maintaining frame, gaming women, and such, is just giving women attention that they crave. Only when the majority of men, OPT OUT, will women collectively demand that things change, in hopes to call us back to the plantation. Me personally, I'm out till three things change (so that means I'm probably going to die of old age before these conditions are met). 1. No fault divorce is deemed unconstitutional, or the state is taken completely out of the governing over relationships all together. 2. The end of the federally supported welfare state. 3. Universal suffrage is eliminated, in favor of a merit based election system.
Drk RE (4 days ago)
I agree with you ThePlummer, but in reality none of that is going to get fixed in the next 30+ years - I think things will get MUCH worse before they get better...
Thomas Russell (15 days ago)
Living trusts don't provide any asset protection; it would need to be an irrevocable trust, which unfortunately incurs gift tax when you contribute to it. The best asset protection vehicles are partnerships or LLPs with more than one member. In common law courts judges can't break up partnerships to serve creditors, and in Alaska even charging orders to grab the distributions are illegal. The next best move is to buy a house in Florida when the shit hits the fan. You can even do this after you get served with a lawsuit since such a transfer is exempt from fraudulent conveyance laws.
Deso97 (16 days ago)
You are describing the current situation. If MGTOW is to be a sustainable, permanent solution, then we need to figure out shit. Not say "oh, but there are will people who will do that regardless" and rely on that solely. MGTOW will go down the shitter if it's not forged into a sustainable philosophy. Trust me. It has a lot of value as a philosophy. It will be sad if we allow it to die.
ThePlummer Speaks: (16 days ago)
homebrandrules... Turd Flinging Monkey and DDJ at Misandry Today is who I'm closely affiliated with, but I like huMAN, Marcus at the Metaphysics of MGTOW, and Big John at the society for men's Freedom.
homebrandrules (16 days ago)
mr plummer you should be the one receiving the 75 bucks for this vid. NOT richard butler. well done, yr suggestion is food for thought p.s. who are yr favourite MGTOW youtuber brothers?
TJLazer (16 days ago)
When you have a daughter you can tell her how worthless she is
fthepolice (16 days ago)
"A guy was trying to vet an a list daughter for marriage" what the fuck does that mean? That sounds like some creepy pedophile shit.
Neil Bryan Closa (16 days ago)
This is sad.
Neil Bryan Closa (16 days ago)
Philippines doesn't have any law on divorce yet.
Marky Hursh (16 days ago)
"No such thing!" Got to analyze the high risk vrs. limited benefit equation - considering feminist dominated Westernized society is NOT "Male Friendly!"
Paola cake Atelier (16 days ago)
The nuclear family it’s important. If you feel you can’t offer that to mother and kids, he t a dog. Want a kid? Man up.
Vegas Mgtow (16 days ago)
Sex dolls is another way.
Ivan Shvedko (16 days ago)
So, the answer is there is no way
V Varrin (16 days ago)
As a man you'll always have risk. Only women have the possibility of a risk-free life. Just be glad you no longer have to go to war against rival tribes wearing only your underwear and armed with a spear. You don't have to fight off dangerous predators either. Men are always the first to do anything (Climb Everest, circumnavigate the globe, first to North pole, first powered flight, first to the moon, etc) because men take risks. My problem with MGTOW is that they avoid risks instead of minimising them. 98% of MGTOW know that they want a relationship with a woman, but they're too risk-avoidant and would rather not put in the work to minimise the risks of an LTR or having children. A lot of them are out the game not because they don't want to play, but because they can't be bothered to get good at it.
Anne B (14 days ago)
V Varrin Relationships are hard, living with another can also be brutal. They always have been. We fool ourselves thinking our grandparents and beyond had it figured out...she was over salting his eggs out of spite because he was snoring all night too, etc. People were miserable then too, you just plowed through it. It was not acceptable to divorce and laws were much tougher. If 98% of mgtow...I don’t know if it’s that high....especially for those that have been burned in the past, want relationships, marriage, families, then they actually have to organize, get their voices heard nationally, not on you tube, and get the laws changed. Women can threaten divorce on a whim, typically he is the one that gets screwed. No one should have all the power, power corrupts. But when you suggests working to change the laws, mgtow guys say they are not a movement, they just want to be left alone, etc.
didafm (16 days ago)
+S asi58 Agreed.
S asi58 (16 days ago)
Risk needs to come with equivalent or greater reward. Risk for the sake of risk is retarded. Either increase the value of relationships (which is nearly impossible) or decrease risks of relationship. That's what nearly all family oriented MGTOWs think. Here's a hint as to how to do the latter, repeal as many laws as possible. Families existed before laws were set up. Laws are unnecessary tyranny.
homebrandrules (16 days ago)
thrice+ bitten forever shy
didafm (16 days ago)
Agreed. But some people dont like risk
Mgtow Investor (16 days ago)
get female pregnant in another country with no child support treaties with ur country boom problem solved
decentradical (16 days ago)
Sperm bank.
hvd iv (16 days ago)
Thete is no safe way an adopted child can still be taken away by the state if THEY want to.
Pretzel 08 (16 days ago)
I did some research into this topic before and Denmark is one of the places that has shared custody upon divorce but I cannot reliably say that it is 100% true because most of the legislation is written in Danish and I do not read or speak Danish. The legislation that was written in English stated that shared parenting will be given by law unless one parent is deemed unworthy (I don't know how that procedure works yet) of taking care of the kids. I found this out because my GF (who is Danish) wanted to get married and have kids but I told her we can get married but only if the law protected me, the kids and my resources and Danish law protects the kids with mandatory shared parenting, however, it never mentioned much about resources.
ben fleming (16 days ago)
Clone yourself
Mel Berry (16 days ago)
This is a really interesting thought experiment, I’m no fan of marriage either. My ex and I are currently coparenting our kids, living in the same neighborhood with a split week schedule and it seems to be working well so far. So would it work from the start is the question? Often times raising babies and toddlers can feel really overwhelming and confining for young parents (I’m an introvert so I actually enjoyed it lol). So you might not have in-house support on your parenting days but then you would have some days free for work, social, or other commitments. It might be better for both parents in that respect, especially if both are working. You would just have to live by the schedule and not move far away from the other bioparent (and of course this would have to be made explicit in a contract). That’s pretty much the coparenting deal my ex and I have now. Another question is could you find a woman willing to give up her chance for the fairytale and agree to this very logical arrangement and assume the risks of pregnancy? Most women probably will still want the ring and the wedding in exchange for their fertility. I guess I’m glad that this isn’t a question I’ll have to face since I’m old and I’ve already had my kids. Good luck guys.
homebrandrules (16 days ago)
Mel Berry .
SuperQdaddy (16 days ago)
You talk to much...there is plenty of kids who need a mentor...be a big brother
Federico Aguzzi (17 days ago)
Was that a bottle of San Pellegrino? They extract and bottle it not far from my home. Greetings from Italy!
Federico Aguzzi (15 days ago)
+Rupert Migtau I know it's owned by Nestlé, but they still make it in the town of San Pellegrino in the valleys near Bergamo in Italy
Rupert Migtau (16 days ago)
Everybody thinks Pellegrino is Italian 🤣🤣😊😊, but it’s owned by globalist NESTLE.
Cato Malgus (17 days ago)
Best case scenario: leave the country and go to the countries that practice patriarchy. However, that in it of itself has its own sets of risks: worse healthcare, higher crime rate, lower pay, being the outsider, etc. The more influenced the country is by the western systems, the more feminist it becomes. For the western crowd, Russia and eastern Europe may be the best options available, integration may be rather easy, just learn language and you should fit right in. The most immune to western system are obviously the muslim nations, by converting to their faith, you may enjoy the benefits of becoming the patriarch of the family. However, the population is very superstitious and the economy and the governing bodies are not stable. Their guardian system is pretty solid, all things considered. I mean, their growth rate is one of the biggest on the planet. Here's very simple chart - the more restricted women are, the more children you can expect to have in the family. However, the more restricted women are, the more likely the country has third world economy. My theory is that the more prosperous the system becomes the more leisure time the inhabitants have to think of retarded socialist programs. That's why west is overwhelmingly cucked and regurgitates the feminist dogma.
Lucas Akil (17 days ago)
Move to Sweden, I live in Sweden and here you have shared custody automatic, you dont have to pay anything for the mother if the child lives with the father as well, and in case you have to pay something because the mother has full custody is about 130 euros fixed price is you cant pay the government pays it for you
Si dogg (17 days ago)
One option to consider would be to find a woman who already has a child and shared custody 50:50 with the father. You already have data to show she is fair. Of course this comes with the risk that she wouldn’t be as fair with you ( I believe that risk is low ) and you have to tread the single mother waters. It’s a roll of the dice but that’s the only option i see for you. Good luck.
Deso97 (16 days ago)
How does this differentiate from being a "cuck"?
InThe Nostalgia (17 days ago)
will you ever post a video about how your divorce went? like did you get divorce raped? did she get custody? child support? did she fuck uou over bad? or did you sonehow get lucky and you guys earned equal income, or she made more so you didnt get fucked as bad?
Doctor Detroit (17 days ago)
There is no safe way. Even if you eliminate the risk from the female mate, your child will be indoctrinated 24/7 by lunatic liberal indoctrination-education at all levels, the leftie media and depraved entertainment industry. Your child will be a potential liability. Having offspring only drags you into the liberal meat grinder. Society has been destroyed by liberalism. go ahead and breed if you must. But you have been warned.
Charles Watson (17 days ago)
What about surrogacy? (Wrote this before watching the video)

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